Hi again, fellow believer that life can always get better.
I’ve been taking you behind-the-scenes of my upcoming 6-month coaching group that will also form my PhD research study.
In my last two posts, here and here, I shared some snippets of theory that explains my coaching approach. If you’re new to the idea that an adjustment on the inside yields, through physics, changes on the outside, you may enjoy reading those.
But today I want to talk about something else.
What I want to talk about is you. And what you want.
Specifically, I’m curious to know what goal you’d most like to realize over the next 6 months.
And even more importantly, why.
(The why matters a lot.)
Its ok if you only have a general idea right now or even if you’re still considering a few options. Getting clear and focused is something you’ll need to do eventually, so let’s just see where you’re at with it now.
Putting your desired goal into words – in writing – will actually move you forward on it.
And taking the time to do it will help you gauge how into this you really are.
I’ve coached people through almost every life experience. And at its essence, my job is the same no matter what the topic. I help folks make the shifts or changes on the inside that ready them for the life changes they seek.
When we change our inner state (the way we feel, the things we believe and our set-point responses and interpretations) on a particular aspect of life, it sets the stage for the external situation to change too. From a consciousness-based perspective, our inner relationship to a situation is inextricably ‘entangled’ with the situation itself; in effect, our experience of the situation and the situation are one thing although we experience them as two.
For this reason, changes in the former result in changes in the latter. And since our inner world is way more malleable and responsive to intention than our outer world, making changes there first is where the greatest power or leverage is.
After so many years of working with myself and others in this way, the inner human world has become my wheelhouse, my comfort zone. I understand the geography of emotion, their energy and their connection to thoughts, events and our bodies. And I know how a person can learn to reshape their inner space – how we feel – with skill and ease.
Teaching others to become adept at renovating their inner world is my strongest skill set and my greatest joy. And most people – including young kids and those with no particular interest in the physics of it – can get very good at doing it, very fast.
So today, I’d love to know how wide-ranging (or narrow!) the topics of interest are for those of you who are ready to move forward on a particular aspect of your life.
Tell me: “If you join the coaching group and it works for you, what exactly will be different in your life at the end of the 6 months?”
Or if you prefer this question, “What goal do you want to reach?”
And also, why? WHY do you want this?
If you’re comfortable, leave your answer as a comment below. Or, email me at firstname.lastname@example.org if you’d rather tell me in private.
I really want to get a sense of the scope and range of members’ interests, so doing this will help both you and I.
’til next time, carry on being awesome 🙂